I don't have the stomach or enough I-don't-give-a-fuck-ness to be the "other woman". Be it with someone who is married, or may as well be. (More than a few years together? Check. Live together? Check. Kids and/or property together? Check. You're a cheater.)
I see how it could be really fun, and freeing in a way, but it's just not it me. I just can't stop thinking about the person who he's technically not supposed to cheat on, or all the other ones who he probably is cheating with. I understand the appeal, and I have had a lot of fun, but ultimately... I Deserve So Much Better. So does she, and even he maybe, but I digress.
So here's to all of us who have been cheated on, who have cheated, and who may have played a part; more than anything, here's to those of us that are going to be honest and deserve the same in return.