Bedtime Stories

Last week I had the marvelous experience of listening to someone read to me blogs I had written.  It may be the most self-indulgent moment I can remember but it felt good.  Especially when the reader realized he was reading about himself, and then a little later when it made him cry.

I find myself walking a fine line with more than a couple relationships right now.  (Don't come to conclusions and assume I'm talking about one kind of relationship or another.)  I am questioning all the rules and guidelines I had set up for myself, which can feel very exciting but also untethered and unstable.  How do I know when to say no now?  I've never enjoyed having to say no, I tend towards going too far and dealing with the consequences.